Episode 4
Well, last weekend blog did not publish! It is up now so sorry for the delay. I have really been bad with this blog dealy…two weeks in a row!
This week gets a little sappy on the blog. The podcast does not get as emotional so go check it out on most streaming applications!
We have a new love seat in the Library that all should come to check out and enjoy. It is very comfortable for sitting, cozying up and seeing in the room 🙂
Podcast
On the podcast this week I covered the new siding of the house, listening and enjoying your time with your elders, that perfect timing, and a special treat 🙂
Let’s cover the house first. From Jan 2 to Jan 27 the house has been torn apart to its naked skin and clothed with beautiful vinyl siding. In the following pictures, you can see the house as it is dressed again as well as the amount of snow we gained from the beginning of January to the end. Man, it was hard to clear the driveway with a giant dumpster and pallet full of siding. Thank you, Lindsay, for your help!
Now, we go to listening to those who have more experience than us.
Those more experienced
I have had a hard time with this part of the blog. It is very important to know when you need to ask for advice. When you need guidance. Who to go to.
I lost both of my grandfathers when I was very young. One I have memories of. The other no. There are stories and knowledge of who he was but he was really sick for most of my life before he went home.
I had a really hard time with not having my grandfathers in highschool. I would cry at least once a week if not more. My friend would get many texts and phone calls because I needed someone to lean on but I didn’t want to upset my parents.
This past year I took time for granted. I know they were pets but I grew up with them. One was my best friend since I was 2 years old. The other was my birthday buddy. I still think of them and miss them.
Preparation
My grandmothers are getting up there in age. They are having more health problems and having a harder time getting around.
For my best friend (my cat Little Boo) I had been preparing myself for the phone call, I would get that she didn’t wake up. That she was gone. Did it help? No.
I was not prepared for Dingo (our dog, my birthday buddy.) I went home one weekend and by the time I made it back to Lake City, I got a call that my mom had to take him to the vet. 45 minutes later he was gone.
I know it is not the same. I know some of you will think it is weird that I am comparing preparing to say goodbye to my grandmothers as I did to family pets. Attachment.
I have one grandmother who has been sticky noting things all over her house for years. So when she dies we know what goes to who.
I know my grandmas will not be on the earth forever. I know they will be going home where there is no more pain and sorrow.
Listening
Time is short. I know this…now I get this. Your time “runs out,” if you will, here on earth.
I have a lot going on lately. I have really been struggling with many things.
The stories they tell and the wisdom they share is so valuable. On Tuesday mornings I have a gentleman, the grandpa of the school, who comes in after men’s bible study and we talk, he shares stories or gives me advice. I LOVE Tuesday mornings. I look forward to them.
He made a comment the other day about listening to those older and taking in what they have to say. I told him I love Tuesday mornings because of his stories and wisdom. He asked “Really?” of course, I told him yes.
I have decided to make use of those smarter than me and those more experienced. I don’t have to struggle through making anything if someone knows how to make it work. What if they made instructions?
I did learn that at a certain point in life, people just like to reminisce. They don’t like to plan or dream they just like to backtrack. I learned that you need to talk to your elders but choose someone who is going to listen back to you and give you feedback.
Ending
Ok, so that took a turn, yes. I waited to say anything because I didn’t know what to say. I said more than I wanted to on somethings but my heart spoke and my fingers typed.
Have a great weekend everyone.
Till next time, see the blessings in every day.
